The Library, The Colonel, and The Data When I first moved to the United States, the marketplace felt like a chaotic, noisy expanse. I was navigating a new culture and a new economy simultaneously. It was during this transition that Col. Louie Waldhour, a close friend of our family, gave me a piece of advice that would anchor my consumer habits for decades. He didn’t tell me which car to buy. He didn’t recommend a specific brand based on a television commercial or a neighbor’s opinion. Instead, he gave me a directive that prioritized data over hype: "Before you buy a car, go to the library and look at the Consumer Reports guides to see the ratings." That trip to the library was my introduction to an organization that treats the consumer marketplace not as a bazaar of claims, but as a laboratory of facts. For decades since, I have remained a member, filling out surveys on my own experiences while their labs test the products th...
Watching Mistress Dispeller through the Montgomery County Public Library’s Kanopy service was a reminder of why looking for stories outside the mainstream is so rewarding. Directed by the visionary Elizabeth Lo and released in the U.S. in October 2025, this documentary is far from the high-stakes thriller the title suggests. Instead of private detectives and dramatic threats, it offers a slow, thoughtful look at how people try to fix what is broken. The film follows a real-life case in mainland China, where a professional "mistress dispeller" named Wang Zhenxi is hired to end an affair and save a marriage. The story centers on Teacher Wang, the wife (Mrs. Li), the husband (Mr. Li), and the mistress (Fei Fei). It captures a patient, careful process of untangling emotions rather than a sudden explosion of anger. It is an elegant movie that sets an example for how conflict can be resolved. Filmed in the bustling urban centers of China, the cityscapes a...